A Family Tradition… I was thrilled and honored that the older two of my four daughters chose to wear my own wedding headpiece. My daughter, Maggie, is in the photo above. She is wearing her own veil, (cathedral length), and my headpiece. Her vision was to always take the veil and headpiece off for the reception. It would be too cumbersome to wear all night. She needed to make sure her hairstyle was up the formality of the event. And it was. Her hair style was spectacular, but she wanted some sort of adornment in her hair for the reception. She visited etsy.com, a wonderful website where individuals can shop from independent venders. You can find almost anything on etsy.com, and the vendors are everyday people who have something special to share.
Maggie purchased a lovely hair adornment to be showcased. Pease note the photo below of the spray of seed pearls. Note, if you choose a hair ornament, buy it early enough so you can have a dry run with your hairdresser.
My second bride, (two weddings in two years), was my oldest daughter, Kathleen. She too chose to wear the family headpiece, but also with her own veil. Her hair was worn down, as had been her vision since she was a tiny girl. And although different from her sister’s undo, every bit as spectacular. For her reception adornment, she also visited etsy.com. Her selection was a beautiful wreath of flowers which echoed her ivory and apricot color scheme. Please note the wreath below in the picture on the left. Her bouquet is featured on the right. We were very pleased how closely the two pieces complimented each other.
I chose to wear silk flowers to be showcased after I took MY veil off 32 years ago. They were pretty, and looked nice in my hair. But I made a mistake with my veil. The netting that went over my face was thick, and created a visual issue for me, and for my guests’ view of me. And it was hot! My photo is below. Compare it to Maggie’s, following photo. Note how fine and delicate my daughter’s veil is…a much better choice than mine. If you’d like to read about different veil fabric weights, you can read an earlier post “Wedding Veil Fabrics” Just click on the link!
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Photos: Image #1 Patty Cloherty
Photo #2 Mary P Karnes
Photo #3 #4 Wedding Guests
Photo# 5 #6 Hannah Colt
Photo #7 Unknown
Photo #8 Patty Cloherty
Wedding Veil Fabrics — Did you know you actually had options? If you have read my last blog post: “If you Choose to Wear a Veil” you may remember that I said my own veil 31 years ago was rather thick and hard to see through. My daughter, Maggie’s veil, however, was sheer and delicate. It had a glossamer effect. You almost couldn’t see it – but you did… There is also a picture of Maggie in her veil in that post as well… veil post…
So it turns out, after much research…that there’s a REASON my veil was so thick and heavy, and Maggie’s so airy and light! There are several different fabric weights and styles for bridal netting. Who knew?!? Maggie’s veil was Bridal Illusion, so light and delicate, it was akin to a cobweb. My veil, on the other hand, was “English Net.” While pure white and beautiful, it was heavy, hard to see through, and HOT! The only other fabric I would consider using on a veil would be the “Glimmer Illusion”. Light like the “Bridal Illusion”, it has an additional shimmer to give a little extra “pizzazz” to the bride’s ensemble. I’m not really sure why a bride would choose one of the other fabrics listed on the first photo. While “Silk Chiffon”, “Polyster Chiffon” (yuck!), and “Organza” are options, I’m not sure why. Unless…the bride wanted a more structured, heavier fabric. You still ask, “Why?” Well, maybe her wedding ceremony is outside, on a beach, perhaps. Maybe she wants the veil hanging down her back only with no blusher covering her face, and she doesn’t want the veil blowing in the wind. Maybe she likes the patterned effect of the organza, or choses to have pearl or beading sewn onto the veil. Maybe…she wants a short veil, and desires more structure than the “Bridal Illusion” offers. Who knows? But someone MUST be purchasing these fabrics… Below is a very useful chart on “Veil Length”. You can click on the following link if you’d like to read my blog post about corresponding “Wedding Dress Trains”.
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If You Choose To Wear a Veil… and a “blusher” (a blusher is the netting that goes over your face)…You need to consider what your coiffeur will look like once your veil is removed. Will you remove your headpiece? The headpiece is the part of the veil that the netting is attached to. If you’re a royal bride, you’ll wear a tiara. If you’re a regular bride – maybe a crown of orange blossoms. If you’re an American bride, anything goes. My daughter, Maggie, is in the photo above. She is wearing her own veil, (cathedral length), and my headpiece. Her vision was to always take the veil and headpiece off for the reception. It would be too cumbersome to wear all night. She needed to make sure her hairstyle was up to the formality of the event. And it was. Her hair style was spectacular, but she wanted some sort of adornment in her hair. She visited etsy.com, a wonderful website where individuals can shop from independent venders. You can find anything on etsy.com, and the vendors are everyday people who have something special to share.
Maggie purchased a lovely hair adornment for her hair to be showcased. Pease note the photos below, which show the adornment. Note, if you choose a hair ornament, buy it early enough so you can have a dry run with your hairdresser.
I chose to wear silk flowers to be showcased after I took MY veil off 30 years ago. They were pretty, and looked nice in my hair. But I made a mistake with my veil. The netting that went over my face was thick, and created a visual issue for me, and for my guests view of me. And it was hot! My photo is below. Compare it to my daughter’s, following photo. Note how fine and delicate my daughter’s veil is…a much better choice than mine.
But please notice…the headpieces are the same… I love tradition!
In my next two posts — please check back to read all about the different fabric options you will have for your veil…AND the lovely invitation my daughter, KK, chose from etsy.com!!
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Photos: Patty Cloherty
I had no idea…and I mean NO IDEA… of the vast options available for the bride who wants something different from the traditional wedding veil!
Today begins a series of those options. I found so much great material about alternatives to the veil, I couldn’t share it all in just one post.
www.weddingwindow.com (photo #1)
www.pininterst.com (photo #2)
madisonplus.com (photo #3)
The most common alternative seems to be some sort of netting covering the eyes, like the three photos above. Commonly called a “Blusher,” word on the street is that it’s making a come-back. Coincidently, “blusher” is the name of the short “mini” veil the traditional bride wears over her face these days, while a much longer, more intricate fabric of gauze trails behind her. While I am a traditionalist, and I think “veil” equals “bride,” I must admit the smaller, more tailored style allows focus to be on the bride’s beautiful hair, make-up and dress.
thebridalwishlist.blogspot.com (photo #4)
Photo number 4 is merely an embellished headband, but what a gorgeous one it is! It’s dramatic, and gives the bride a regal image. While not quite a tiara, it lends the feel of one with all the rhinestones. The same goes for the gorgeous headpiece decoration below. This is my favorite, and I think it would be even more striking on a brunette…But then I am slightly biased… 🙂 Even if you choose a traditional veil, consider one of these pretty pieces after you removed your veil for the reception. Along with your while bridal gown, one of these sparkers will set you apart from your attendants. And what about those attendants? Do you wish for them to hear a headpiece of some sort? It was de rigor in days of old, one reason being Catholic women had to have their heads covering during Mass, and other Christians followed suit. Then it became a style thing. I like it…
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