Your Wedding Venue’s Powder Room

Your Wedding Venue’s Powder Room…Is it important to decorate the venue’s powder room?

The photos below are from a wedding I recently coordinated.  The bride and her mother had a generous powder room at their venue to work with.  Is it always necessary to decorate to such a degree?  No, of course not, but it sure did look pretty, and fit perfectly with the season.

One thing I would definitely recommend, however, is a basket in both the women’s  and the men’s rooms filled with the fragrant pinecones above.  The are relatively inexpensive, have a natural, fresh scent, and can mask less than delightful odors.

Another thoughtful, useful item to place in both powder rooms is a convenience basket with toiletries.  Should the baskets have different items for the men and women?  Absolutely!  I have included photos of a couple examples below, and if you’d like to read a blog post from this blog on “how to” and what to include, just click on the link: Men’s Room Basket .

Or for women: Ladies Room Baskets

 

Above two photos: craftywedding

And don’t forget sunscreen and bug spray if you plan to have a daytime and/or outside wedding. Your guests will be very appreciative of your thoughtfulness.  Consider having several baskets scattered around the reception site, and place them on tables, or hang them from low tree limbs.  People tend to look up, rather than down.

Have little room to decorate, place baskets?  No worries!  Just a simple bouquet can brighten and grace a space.  I love the bouquet above.  It sets just the right tone to create a festive air.  And if there is little shelf space, just take in a chair and place the toiletry basket on that.

Remember, there is no right or wrong with weddings, but you can never take a misstep thinking of others.

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Cookies For Your Special Event?

Cookies for your special event?

Many brides these days are choosing to have alternative desserts at their weddings. While a wedding cake is still my favorite, (click here to see some crazy beautiful cakes from a pervious blog), I think gourmet cookies are the next great thing!

Cookies are already the ‘go to’ for tea parties, like the gorgeous ones above, and birthday parties, but they are riding a new wave of popularity for multiple functions.

The cookies above are perfect, obviously, 🙂 for a grad party.  Or what about the flower and mermaid cookies below for a little girl’s birthday party?

Cookies can be made by special order for every event, as long as you’re lucky enough to find an artist/baker to create your order and you give him/her enough advance notice.  Seriously…check-out the adorable ones below.

And it’s not just little girls who love cookies!  I love these baby shower works of art above.  I’m not sure I could eat these, they are just too beautiful.  This raises a good point.  Cookies this cute can also serve as decoration for your events.

Not sure what to give that ‘hard to buy for’ father or uncle?  Cookies made for his favorite hobby could be just the thing!

Obviously, not every bakery has an artist who can create such works of art.  It takes skill, patience and natural talent.  My long time friend is just such a baker.  She can make almost any cookie for any event – just give her some time to obtain the cutters.  If you’re in Southern California, great, “Bunny’s Cookies” are easy to get.  If not, she ships!  Her contact info is: bunyportillo@icloud

Even the icing bags below are pretty!  If you’re ready to ride the wave of the latest trend in wedding dessert, give gourmet cookies a try.  They’re sure to be a hit with your guests.

Nova McLaren Bespoke Wedding Dresses

New Hartford County Resident – Olivia Humphreys – Wedding Dress Designer

There’s a new citizen in Glastonbury who sports some impressive credentials.  Her name is Olivia Humphreys, and she is the creative talent behind the designer label, “Nova McLaren”.

The Nova McLaren line specializes in wedding dresses, like the ones in the photos above and below.  She also designs gowns such as ‘Mother of the Bride’ dresses and christening gowns.

Humphreys is a transplant from the UK.  Prior to her move to Glastonbury, she worked for a few years in Manhattan for design houses: Marchesa, Reem Acra and Christian Sirianao.  She also free-lanced during this time developing designs for a few chosen companies.

Humphreys made her debut as a television expert on “Connecticut Style” (WTNH), speaking about Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s wedding and again on christening attire for the newest royal baby, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge’s son, little Prince Louis of Cambridge.   (Please enjoy still photos of her debut below).  Follow Humphreys on Instagram, and you can check out a snippet of her interviews: @novamclarenbridal.

As a mother of four daughters, I realize how expensive weddings, and wedding dresses, can be.  When I heard about the Nova McLaren label, I thought, ‘that’s what I want for my daughters!’  But the imagined price scared me a little.   While a bespoke, (a “made to order item of clothing’), dress is quite costly, I was presently surprised at Humphreys’ prices.  Nova McLaren wedding dresses start at $3,500.  This includes materials and supplies, hand stitching, beading, lace work, (if desired), all fittings, and – get this…a matching veil.  Just a moderately priced veil can start at $500.00. Fittings, at such locations as the overrated wedding reality show staple, ‘KLEINFIELDS’ in New York, are a flat fee of $700.00.  Humphreys’ materials are always premium.  The lace is imported from France, from the ‘Sophie Hallette Company’; in fact it is the same used by H.R.H. Catherine, The Duchess of Cambridge, on her wedding gown and veil.

How long does it take Humphreys to create her works of art? It takes about ten full days.  First, Humphreys develops a paper pattern incorporating the brides’ desired style.  Next, she cuts the pattern out from muslin.  She then sews the muslin, and has a fitting with the bride.  If it looks right, the precious wedding material is cut and hand sewn. More fittings are required.  The last steps are the attachments of beads, pearls, lace, embroidery or sequins if desired.  These gowns are completely customized.  Think of what an heirloom these gowns can become… a keepsake to hand down from generation to generation.

Photos included are of designer Olivia Humphreys.  The gowns shown are from her personal collection.

“Confessions From the Mother of the Bride”

 “Confessions from the Mother of the Bride.”  Well, here it is, my “Mother of the Bride Dress”.  No, it’s not your conventional dress for such an occasion.  It’s very simple, but I loved it on sight.  It’s my favorite color and I liked how I looked in it.  If you like how it fits, that’s half the battle, right?  I did, however, promise myself that I would never wear a sleeveless dress as a ‘woman of a certain age.’  But I couldn’t resist!

So this much too expensive dress hung covered in my closet.  Because once this sleeveless wonder was altered, there was no returning it — it was mine.  While I had been prompt and organized throughout the wedding  process, three weeks out, I STILL had yet to alter my dress.   I finally bit the bullet, and took the dress to get fitted.  Measurements were taken, pins went in.  I picked it up, the dress was mine. Now it was time to do something about those arms.

Growing up in CA, I always had a tan.  I was a kid, and sadly, we never even wore sunscreen.  Here in New England, I always wear sunscreen, but sit outside a lot at the younger girls’ softball games — so I have a farmers’ tan.

I’ll just use some “sunless tanner,” I thought…Crazy as I have NEVER used the stuff…I generously wiped it over my arms.  “Huh!” I thought.  “Doesn’t work very well.”  —Until the next morning.  I awoke to HUGE patches of tan arms, and huge patches of white!

Soooo…How to remove sunless tanner from your skin?  Apparently there is a product for just that purpose.  I tried to find it locally, and had no luck.  What worked best for me?  Make-up remover facial wipes.  Kind of gives me pause that I must be using a product that has rubbing alcohol in it…  I’m going to be more careful about reading labels from now on.  Other home remedies include hydrogen peroxide, and body scrub such as St Ives.  (Above the lovely bride and groom, daughter Maggie and son-in-law, Robert)

SHOES – When I initially went dress shopping, the male personal stylist picked out navy blue patent leather pumps.  When I went back to the store to have the dress fitted, I had a female stylist help me.  She just shook her head “NO!” when she saw the pumps.  She ran down to the shoe department and came back with the flashy silver ones in the first picture.  I LOVED them!  She brought a 7 1/2, but decided there were too big.  I tried the size 7 and purchased them – being swayed by the stylist.

Then I began to worry.  “I’m going to be on my feet all day and night,” I thought.  Better go with the 7 1/2.  They were out of stock!!  I had just enough time to order and receive them before the wedding, YEA!  Of course I tried them on and walked in them.  Everyone knows to do that…

But what I DIDN’T do… was try them on with the pantie hose I chose to wear to the wedding.  I opted to wear the hose as I was still so pale from the winter.  Enter potential disaster…

The shoes were now too big with my feet slipping around with the lack of friction.  “I’ll just put some fashion tape on my heels and the balls of my feet,” I thought.  I had the tape too, but it never happened – distracted over some small item…  My walk down the isle was great – but when I was a few feet away from my seat, and after I genuflected, I ALMOST walked out of my shoes…rookie mistake to skip the tape.  🙂  But as a side note…my feet never hurt all night…maybe I DID get the right size…   (Below, my walk down the aisle with the groom’s handsome brother, Matt)