Changing Your Wedding Vision

You’ve been planning your wedding since you were twelve. You know the colors you want, have visioned the guest ceremony seats full, imagined running through the affectionate group of loved ones as you make your departure to begin the rest of your married life.

Then Covid-19 hit. The good news, we have an effective vaccine; but the uncertainty of when the population will reach the required percentage for herd immunity is concerning. Do you reschedule, postpone or elope? Or do you risk it and plan an all out shindig?

Perhaps, none of the options appeal. What about your dream wedding, just a scaled down version, a “mini- dream,” if you will – or what is commonly becoming known as a “micro-wedding.”


The bride below decided to do just that. She is stunning, and chose to dress in all her finery, but you can notice the empty pews in the right side of the photo.

Guests above did their part to participate in the micro event by wearing masks.

Simple staging can give the illusion of a more full church. This couple had guests seated close to the center aisle with rows skipped; thus giving the illusion of a full church. This also helped with social distancing.

Remember…the ultimate goal is to be married to the person of your dreams. Yes it’s nice to have all the bells and whistles, but wedding plans, like life, can change in a heartbeat. Good to roll with whatever comes your way.

Check back next time for some tips on making changes to your wedding appear seamless.

Photographs 2, 3 and 4 property of Andrew Holtz.

A Short Wedding Dress?

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With our ever-changing world, your wedding plans may have changed as well. Perhaps you have gone from a guest list of 250 to 50, or even smaller.  Many weddings this 2020 season have been cancelled, rescheduled  or postponed. This includes the weddings I have coordinated.

Has  your vision of your wedding  dress changed?  Are you contemplating a more simple style, perhaps a shorter version? Well, first off, if you wish to wear an over the top dress…do it!  This is YOUR day, there is no right or wrong. But… if are considering a shorter dress. I have some lovely options to share. Below is a tea-length gown. A tea-length gown is one that is not to the floor, but well below the knees.  This is a nice compromise between a floor length gown and a shorter dress.

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Are you looking for a classic short dress? Then you may be interested in the gorgeous dress below.

Long sleeved short wedding dress #whitepartydress

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If I were a bride today, I think I’d choose a dress like the next one. This is a vintage 50’s era frock. I love the belted waist, the sweetheart neckline and the lace bodice. It checks off all my wishlist items.

Vintage 1950's lace and tulle ivory short wedding dress

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Can’t make up your mind? Well the gown above gives you the best of both worlds, long in the back shorter in the front.

The best things about a shorter wedding gown? It is a perfect way  to showcase some extra special wedding shoes. So if you do go with a shorter dress, consider some spectacular heels!

No matter what dress you choose, make sure you select a trusted family member or friend to take your wedding gown to a specialty clean/preserver. If you’re not taking a honeymoon right after your wedding, you can do this yourself. But remember, the care of your gown can’t wait. It should be done with in two to three days.

 

I Wore A Dress to the Market

While Disney World is purported to be the “Happiest Place on Earth,” I have the happiest job on earth. Imagine being able to be a part of planning a couple’s wedding; up to that point, the best day in both their lives. But then…the Pandemic of 2020 hit.

Not only are poor couples forced to change their wedding day plans, or reschedule entirely; the job, which once gave me so much joy, has become a source of sadness. Instead of speaking with excited, giddy brides, I am, at best, speaking with disappointed ones.

I found myself out of sorts, and of course worried about my family and friends’ health and that of the world. My family was patient and kind, but frankly, had their own pandemic challenges: working from home with a houseful, as well as going to school on-line. We all had to make compromises.

I am not novel in declaring that, I had more time to do the “simple things”, more time to “get things organized,” more time to “connect with both family, in my home, and friends from afar.”  Yes, I did all those things, but I also decided to step outside the box.

I have never been a formal person, I’ll go run errands, do my marketing in sweats or exercise wear. So I decided that I was going to start dressing up for my only event, the grocery store. I began to look forward to my wardrobe selections, and plan what outfits I’d wear. It gave me something to anticipate, and got my mind off feeling sorry for myself.

Yes… I wore a dress, (or two), to the market. This may not be your thing, (maybe this was already your norm!), maybe you’ll enjoy cooking during this new normal,  (I oddly enough, have!). But if  you’re so inclined, pick something to get yourself out of your funk. I don’t think there’s anyone among us who has escaped some level of ennui. My message is: do something for yourself, and don’t feel you must do what everyone else is. We are all different, and different things please us. Find your happy thing.

Enjoy what we have, and what’s to come. It’s all we have.

And to my brides, both present and future out there, we will get though this. Sending my love.

Below, Mary in a dress. 🙂

 

 

 

Wedding Bouquet – Giant or Smaller?

Wedding Bouquet, giant or smaller?

I’ve noticed a trend lately. Brides are choosing larger bouquets.

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I’m going to be honest…it’s not my first choice. I don’t think they’re flattering in either photos or the bride. Note the photo above.  We can not even see the bride’s waist. I have an inking she did her best to present a trim silhouette, but we can’t see it.

Exceptions? When you are close to six feet tall and are getting married in a venue such as St. Paul’s Cathedral, London. To whom am I referencing?  Well, Lady Diana Spencer, of course. Her wedding ensemble warranted a gigantic bouquet. It was part of the costume.

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Note the bouquets carried by her daughters-in-law above. I think they are much more flattering. We as guests, or at least the viewing public, are able to see the brides’ dresses.  A bride still has something to do with her hands by carrying a smaller bouquet, but is not overwhelmed.  The eye is able to focus on the important things: the dress, hair, accessories, not just the flowers.  Another upside? Large bouquets are HEAVY! And…they are more expensive.

I am not advocating skimping on wedding flowers.  They are an extremely important part of your wedding decor; perhaps just not one you have to tote around and pose with in your formal photos.

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Wow!  Check out the floral above!  That is  spectacular.  You can go big without making your florals part of your personal flowers.

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Another favorite of mine?  A splash of color in the bride’s bouquet, and white flowers for the bridesmaids. With this model, both styles of bouquets pop in photos.

But remember…it’s YOUR wedding; so what is correct is what YOU like…not me, not your mother, your bridesmaids, or your florist….YOU.  Enjoy all the planning.