“A Nantucket Wedding” by Nancy Thayer

A Nantucket Wedding by Nancy Thayer …

I have been waiting, rather impatiently, for it’s release.  What a joy to be able to read it early.  Obviously, I love weddings…and I love Nantucket.  Sadly, I have never been; but oh, a visit to Nantucket is on my bucket list!  And that desire has been created by reading the delightful, sun-kissed beach reads, by my all time favorite author, Nancy Thayer.

A Nantucket Wedding was everything I’d hoped, and come to expect, from Thayer.  It’s as rich and as sensual as a warm piece of chocolate molten cake. But first, before my review…a blurb from Barnes and Noble…

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“Wedding bells are ringing, a family is reunited, and new love is blooming—for better or worse—in this captivating novel from the New York Times bestselling author of The Island House and Secrets in Summer.

A few years after losing her beloved husband, Alison is doing something she never thought she would do again: getting married. While placing the finishing touches on her summer nuptials, Alison is anxious to introduce her fiancé, David, to her grown daughters: Felicity, a worried married mother of two, and Jane, also married but focused on her career. The sisters have a somewhat distant relationship and Alison hopes that the wedding and the weeks leading up to the ceremony will give the siblings a chance to reconnect, as well as meet and get to know David’s grown children.

As the summer progresses, it is anything but smooth sailing. Felicity stumbles upon a terrible secret that could shatter her carefully cultivated world. Jane finds herself under the spell of her soon-to-be stepbrother, Ethan, who is as charming as he is mysterious. And even Alison is surprised (and slightly alarmed) by her new blended family. Revelations, intrigue, resentments—as the Big Day approaches, will the promise of bliss be a bust?
      
Against the gorgeous backdrop of the sunswept island of Nantucket, Nancy Thayer sets the stage for a walk down the aisle no one will ever forget.”

If you’d like to order A Nantucket Wedding for your own, you can click on either link below and be directed to Barnes and Noble or Amazon. The book appears in book stores, or on your personal reading device, April 3, 2018 – but you can pre-order!

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Most often, I devour books.  I must get to the end as soon as I can.  I had that same compulsion with A Nantucket Wedding, but I forced myself to hold back.  I hate when I finish Thayer’s books.  They are such an escape, such a delight, I feel bereft when I finish one.  So I savor the read, and make it last as long as I can. But alas, A Nantucket Wedding DID come to an end.  But don’t worry, it was such a treat, I enjoyed every word.

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Not only does Thayer give a most glowing description of her beloved island, (and yes, you’ll feel like you know it, even if you’ve never been there! I included a map of the area above, in case you’d like to get a little perspective), she also hits just the right notes of family dynamics, new relationships… and yes, sigh…red hot romance! Her characters are identifiable, just like people in your own lives.

Thayer is a master at incorporating familial multi-generations in her novels.  These books are for everyone.  I love them, as do my teen and young adult daughters.  Her novels are of problems solved and new beginnings; feel good books for sure. A Nantucket Wedding is no exception.

Nancy Thayer has many, many books to her credit set in Nantucket.  She also writes a delightful series – The Hot Flash Club Series – Yes…you read that right!  🙂  They are a kick! (A link from amazon is included below if you’re interested)

The Hot Flash Club Series  – Amazon

Below, the beautiful Nancy Thayer

And what about that beautiful island?  Well the wedding was held at the fabulous Wawinet Resort on Nantucket.  I have included some photos from the resort’s “Toppers” Restaurant Instagram for your enjoyment.

How about that for a spread…and the view!

A wedding cake made on site by the Resort’s very own pastry chefs.

I can most definitely see myself here!

Arrive at Toppers Restaurant via the complimentary cruise “Wauwinet Lady”

What a sunset…I’m in love, I imagine you will be too.  I’ll get back to you after I made my pilgrimage to Nantucket this summer.  I just must…  🙂

Bridal Headpieces – Focus on the Back

Bridal Headpieces – how many of you brides “focus on the back”?  Think about it… as you walk down the aisle, what is the focal point of your guests?  It is on your back.  Many brides realize this and choose a gown that showcases a dramatic look. But many neglect their hair ornaments/ headpieces.  I am a big fan of the wedding veil.  To me, a veil makes a bride ‘look like a bride’.

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The photo above incorporates the best of both worlds.  The bride has a lovely headpiece, and attaches her veil to it.  After the ceremony, she can removed the veil for the reception and display her beautiful  headpiece.

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Perhaps you want to order such a hair ornament.  Where would you find one?  Etsy.com.  It’s a great website for one of a kind creations.

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I love the ornament above. It’s delicate, bridal, and looks wonderful against the bride’s dark hair.

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No veil? No problem! But then go big! The bride above chose flowers as her headpiece.  I think it’s just beautiful, and if the flower colors match the bride’s color pallet, it will tie into the wedding perfectly.

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Above are some other floral options.  Remember…you do not have to limit your florist generated headpiece to flowers alone.  The arrangements with just greens are also very attractive.  And don’t forget.  If you choose to go with an elaborate “back” look for your hair, make sure you have an elaborate hairstyle.  In this scenario, the longer the hair, the better. Best advice?  Have a practice session with your wedding day hair stylist to make sure she creates the best possible style to showcase the floral arrangement.  Perhaps you will need a practice arrangement to have your hair dresser attach as your headpiece?  Yes, I think you will.  Talk to your florist about an economical option for this.  Good luck!

Fun Wedding Shower Ideas

Looking for fun wedding shower ideas?  Look no further! My long time friend, Jan, shared some photos from her niece’s wedding shower, hosted by her family.  The cookie favors are absolutely adorable, and I love the variety.

 

Another plus to these favors? They are individually wrapped with a delicate blue ribbon.  This way, they are not only hygienically sealed, but can easily be saved by guests to be enjoyed later with a cup of tea or coffee.

Jan introduced me to a charming German tradition.  Read below for a lovely story, and please enjoy the lovely photo of Jan’s own German Bridal Cup. Love the roses in the cup!

The Legend of the Nuernberg Bridal Cup

“Centuries ago, in old Nuernberg, the nobel mistress Kunigunde fell in love with a young and ambitious goldsmith. Although Kunigunde’s wealthy father (a powerful nobleman) did not Traditional German Wedding Cupapprove of this pair, it was clear that she only wanted the goldsmith to be her husband as she refused many titled and rich suitors who asked for her hand in marriage.

Her father became so enraged that he had the young goldsmith thrown into the darkest dungeon. Not even his daughter’s bitter tears would change her father’s mind.

To her father’s dismay, imprisoning the young man did not end his daughter’s love for the goldsmith. Instead, he could only watch as his daughter grew paler and paler as a result of the separation from her true love.

The wealthy nobleman reluctantly made the following proposal: He told his daughter, “If your goldsmith can make a chalice from which two people can drink at the same time without spilling one single drop, I will free him and you shall become his bride”.

Of course he was certain nobody could perform such a task…

Inspired by love and with skillful hands, the young goldsmith created a masterpiece. He sculpted a girl with a smile as beautiful as his own true love’s. Her skirt was hollowed to serve as a cup. Her raised arms held a bucket that swivels so that it could be filled and then swung towards a second drinker.

The challenge was met. The goldsmith and the nobleman’s daughter joined hands in marriage and with the bridal cup set forth a romantic and memorable tradition as charming today as it was originally hundreds of years ago.

To this day and to many couples the chalice remains a symbol.
Love, faithfulness and good luck await the couple who drink from this cup.”

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Special Wedding Dances

Special Wedding Dances…what do I mean by this?  Well, of course I mean the standard ones, the “Father/Daughter Dance” and the “Mother/Son Dance”. But there are other dances of significance you may want to consider.  Yes, they are a little old-fashioned, but they are not only crowd pleasers, but make cherished memories as well.

Above is a photo of my parents dancing and WINNING the “Anniversary Dance”. All married couples were invited to dance to a pre-chosen song. Then the DJ politely asked couples married less than 5 years, then 10 years, then 20 years to leave the dance floor.  This went on until only one couple remained, the longest married couple.  As I mentioned earlier, at my daughter Maggie and son-in-law Robert’s wedding, the winner of the “Anniversary Dance” was my parents – at 63 years.  I was very proud, and isn’t it a lovely photo?  It’s a picture I will always cherish.  My parents always could “cut a rug”!

Maggie and Robert also chose to recognize their parents.  They played our wedding song and Robert’s parents’ wedding song as well, and we all danced to them. Above you see Rob’s parents, Debbie and Bob, on the right of this picture.

The next photo doesn’t showcase any special dance, but I love the picture.  The little girl, (not so little anymore!), dancing with Rob, is his new sister-in-law, my youngest, Julia. They have a wonderful, big brother/little sister relationship, as I think is apparent in this picture.

The next captures a lovely moment during the “Mother/Son Dance”.  Debbie, mother of the groom, looks just beautiful – and so happy.

And what wedding reception could be complete without the “Father/Daughter Dance”? Above you see my lovely daughter and my husband dancing to James Taylor’s “Smiling Face”. It’s now a family tradition for our daughters to dance with their dad to this song at their wedding.  Both our older girls have so far… All four of our daughters know their dad thinks of them when he hears it.  🙂

So don’t be afraid to be a little “hooky”. You’ll love the results, and so will your guests.  This post is a nice segue into a “Guest Blog” post my oldest will be writing and sharing with you soon…

All Photos: Stephen Wang